While most people I meet are a bit more tactful, one person I met in 2012 back in DC, from Europe, remarked upon seeing me that “God must have made mixed race people more beautiful so they wouldn’t be rejected.” Once I got over the shock of her lack of manners, as we hadn’t even introduced ourselves, I tried to explain to her that I am not mixed, but Black, aka African American, these days, although it says “Colored” on my birth certificate. She refused to hear that, insisting that I could not possibly be Black, insisting that I could be from Greece, or Italy, or any part of the Mediterranean, like her. I chalked it up to her culture, and turned the subject to her publications, which then took up the rest of our meeting (no, she never asked me about my works). So, I wrote this poem as I pondered that meeting, and wondered how we could ever build a world that can work to the benefit of us all.
This is in a page of my Ideas Notebook that missed this poem in the corner, being covered by a sticky note (page 5…).
A blessing, and not a curse?
Really the head, and not the tail?
Has G-d made us the in-betweens, the rejected,
beautiful for a good reason, not for our torment?
Not for us to languish in ironic solitude
Cut off by the miserable jealousy of the “pure bloods?”
Can this beauty really bring peace,
and not death?
I find at least some solace in hoping that the work we all post on our blogs may make it out, eventually, to show how cooperation and long term empathetic thinking may change our society to one of kindness.
1.) What, do you imagine, can we do to eliminate prejudice from our society?
2.) How would you share this idea?
1.) Share your thoughts on how we can build empathy in our society today
2.) Write a story, post or tweet that uses those thoughts.
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